always been non binary, had fun during glam rock era when dressing was fun, often dressed in public before it was a thing, and, of course, in pvt for MEN, go go danced in gay bar in gold lame outfit in platform heels, (still 'dance' for males on line), more recently employed as housemaid, and would like to do it again; so older men who like 70s style queens you know who to chat with.