Let me update.
I have been dressing as Teri for almost a year now. She started with just my wife's panties, then added bras and other items. Now she shaves what she can (wife forbade shaving my chest) and learning makeup and wearing a wig. Quite a journey.
Like most crossdressers, my roots go back to my teens and I've dressed off and on since. This go-round seems more "real". More focused if that makes sense. I crave the time I get to spend as Teri.
My wife recently discovered Teri, and though she seems to accept her, I still try to be respectful and not dress up when she's home.
I thank all in the URNA community for their acceptance and support. You are all so great!!
Teri